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Re: I’m looking to buy a toy for my girlfriend and I to use together, but I’ve heard stories of women liking their toys better than their boyfriends, so I don’t want to get her someth...

Lost Boyfriend — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 10:35:39 -0000

Hmm interesting, though I will say this. Every since my girlfriend bought a vibraor I have had zero sex

Re: First Rocker Sells Mold of His Cock

vibrators — Wed, 16 Nov 2011 00:32:39 -0000

That was such a nice song. I am hoping that you are to post and share more clips in this site. I will have to visit your site again soon.

Re: Mythbusters #1: Men and Vibrators

Personal massagers — Thu, 27 Oct 2011 02:24:02 -0000

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Re: Male Submission and Art

LifestyleCpl — Wed, 20 Jul 2011 22:06:20 -0000

a wonderufully erotic pix

Re: Male Submission and Art

LifestyleCpl — Wed, 20 Jul 2011 22:05:46 -0000

a wonderfully erotic pix

Re: The Do’s and Don’ts of Ruff Playtime

Sangria4ever — Fri, 01 Apr 2011 17:23:32 -0000

Yes. I like using multiple codewords. The stoplight works well for telling your partner when to go, stop, and when to show caution.

Re: The Northwestern Sex Controversy

Sbcsbc60 — Sun, 06 Mar 2011 02:11:03 -0000

I read the word privilege and I'm instantly put off reading further as a woman, a feminist and actually, not an American. I wasn't there however to decide something was not actually ok just makes a mockery of the writer assuming sex positivity. Had this been a woman doing this what would have been the reaction? I doubt it would have been this.

Re: The Northwestern Sex Controversy

Sonds — Sat, 05 Mar 2011 17:34:55 -0000

Thanks for this perspective, Lucien. I was trying to find/vocalize a balance between the worlds of sex-positivity and sex-negativity, and this post does a good job of straddling both (pun always intended). As much as I do agree with the sex-positivity, and the decision that this was performed in response to the idea that the g-spot may or may not exist (female sex-negativity?), there is a difference between introducing something for shock value (fucksaw? why not this: goo.gl/HIKni) vs. introducing pleasure as a complex and even intimate exchange - which can also be achieved in front of an audience. Overall, the "spectacle" may actually do more harm than good in terms of promoting sex-positivity and the multiple, complex, and beautiful pursuits of that in the public sphere.

Re: Female Ejaculation, or Getting the Juices Flowing

DanarchyLives — Fri, 03 Dec 2010 16:02:30 -0000

Very insightful stuff. Any man worth his cock would be well advised to heed these lessons if he wants to think of himself as a complete lover.

Re: A Pussy-Licking Primer

omy.. — Thu, 14 Oct 2010 13:09:51 -0000

I want to forward this spectacular article to every man I've ever slept with. Maybe I'll just keep a copy in my purse for when I'm about to get laid.

Re: Beyond KY and hand lotion: Lubes for the modern man

http://disqus.com/texnogeekz/ — Fri, 30 Apr 2010 19:25:31 -0000

Now I'm wondering if liquid silk will help cure male yeast infection, I've been looking into that lately.

Re: Porn 101: Videos you’ll both enjoy

Loooooosey — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 15:31:09 -0000

You might also want to check out Comstock Films. They don't have *plots* per se, but are more like a pornographic documentary about real couples.

Re: Your dick, in a nutshell.

last longer in bed — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 05:52:53 -0000

After reading your post.., I remember a song entitled "The way we were" Great post..

Re: Introducing Toys to New Boys

Adriana — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 18:31:40 -0000

If you haven't ventured into anal play before, I wouldn't go with a butt plug at all. That's too many new/taboo ideas at one.

Re: Why Can’t My Girlfriend Orgasm With Me?

chelsea — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 19:25:05 -0000

If a guy lit a bunch of candles, broke out the wine, had me spread out on a bed, opened his mouth, and . . . asked me if I'd ever had a traumatic sexual experience, I would not want to get sexual with him again. Perhaps the illusion of impending oral sex isn't the best means of getting someone to open up about severe emotional trauma. Just sayin.

Otherwise, I thought this article was great. (although, the idea that women lose control of their bodies more so than men during orgasm was a little strange; that it just doesn't happen to be true in my experience.) It's true that women may not orgasm for multiple reasons, but from what I've experienced and heard from other women, the #1 cause is men assuming penetration leads to orgasm, rather than clitoral stimulation. In fact, I think some guys would rather believe there is something wrong with their gf than admit that his penis alone isn't going to get the job done. I had a bf who could get me off easily through oral or manual sex, but when we started having vaginal intercourse (and he stopped doing the stuff that worked!) he was Just So Confused as to why I wasn't getting off. He even went so far as to hypothesize that I was just "one of those women who gets off rarely." Uh, hello buddy, you were getting me off fine with the other stuff. Is this really a huge mystery?

Unfortunately, both men and women are taught that penetration leads to orgasm (through limited sex education, and those movies featuring the hot stud you mentioned. When, in the movies, do we ever see the stud doing something pleasurable with his hands during sex? Uh, never.) So while it isn't specifically the fault of either sex for believing this bs, it's great to have articles like this to help set the record straight.

Re: Your dick, in a nutshell.

robbiekins — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 22:39:42 -0000

I bow to your penile knowledge, Eden.